I try to avoid politics in my writing, and I believe that although politics is mentioned, the main message in the blog is not political at all, it is truly about heart health. Heart health is my mission. It is what our organization is working for, that is fewer heart disease related occurrences. It is believed that 80% of heart disease related occurrences can be prevented. 80%, that is an amazing statistic. When I read that, I realized that what we are working towards is achievable. We can make a difference.
One of the causes of heart disease is stress. Stress can adversely affect your body, specifically, the toll it can take on your heart. In the big picture, what has been more stressful lately than the recent presidential election and subsequent inauguration? Two sides bitterly opposing the other. The Facebook arguments, what the media chooses to highlight, the non-peaceful protests, the fake news, the strong opinions, and the spin and twisted truth, it is surrounding us, maybe even consuming some.
I’ll have to admit, I didn’t sleep all that well the night of the inauguration. Surprisingly, it wasn’t so much about who is now our President, although it does bring some trepidation, it would have no matter who was elected, I was restless because of concern for what we as a society have become. We have become a society of know-it-alls, and that is scary. What this means to me, is that very few people are truly objective and willing to have open minded discussions before forming an opinion. We have become intolerant to people with opinions that don’t mesh with our own. That is dangerous for many reasons, including a lack of growth as a person and how we interact with others. Of course, not everyone falls in this category, but it is prevalent in today’s society. How did this happen?
I have my theory, and of course I am going to share it, otherwise what’s the point of writing this blog. LOL. Let’s do it like this, let’s imagine these two candidates in 1950, or 1930, or 1830 for that matter. What would we know about them? We would know their accomplishments, what they tell us, what we heard with our own ears, or read about in a single newspaper, a newspaper that most likely reported factual information (what a novelty). We may not have all the information about the candidates, but what we would have known is most likely credible. At the very least, it would have been based on our own rational thoughts and feelings.
Today we are bombarded with the opinions of others, factual or not; blog posts factual or not; media reports (many of which have a biased spin); memes (most of which are contrived, are biased, or filled with lies); and publications, many of which have an ulterior motive. We are supposed to sift through it all to know what to believe. I say it is impossible.
Just as an example, there was a video on Facebook of Bill Clinton at the inauguration looking off into the distance. You have probably seen it. Hillary looks at Bill, with a funny look on her face, Bill catches her glance and then proceeds to look back in the original direction. Hillary looks to be a bit put off by it all. The caption represents it as Hillary catches Bill staring at Melania Trump, insinuating that he can’t keep his eyes off good looking women. Nowhere in the short video is Ms. Trump. Nowhere is there proof that Bill was looking at Melania and not something else. What I found interesting were the comments. People bought it hook line and sinker. That’s what scary, because they are basing their opinions on information that may not be credible.
To reduce stress in your lives, I think it is important to know that most information available to us, needs to be fact checked and read with a bit of skepticism. In other words, we need to remain open minded and know that what we are reading is probably not 100% factual. Know that you most likely aren’t a political expert, and most likely don’t know all the facts. I will give one more example, I questioned the US giving Iran $150,000,000,000 (that’s a lot of zeros). I have an opinion on it, but really, what do I know? Was I involved in every sit-down discussion with the Iranian leaders? No. Was I in the internal US strategy meetings to discuss how to handle the situation? No. Do I have all the information I need to form an educated opinion? I doubt it, and guess what, our leadership isn’t going to give us all the information in every situation, often times in order to protect us.
Why then get all worked up over it, and argue with someone who may know less than me about a subject, should they have a different opinion than mine. That type of rationale, recognizing that we are not experts in every matter, is becoming rare in our society and it needs to change fast. I’m not saying you cannot have an opinion, it is ok to have an opinion, just keep an open mind that the reasons you believe in a certain thing, may have been based on flawed information for no particular fault of your own.
I for one, am going to take a deep breath, do my homework, try to forge my opinions (political and otherwise) out of knowledge and facts (notice I said try), and not engage with others if they happen to have an opposing opinion, unless, and here is the key, unless they are as willing as I am to admit that we are not experts in the matter, and willing to be open minded. Less stress will result, and less stress is better for the heart.
Thanks for reading, and I hope our society can someday see the light.
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